The Final Day has come and gone :(


Hi Everyone,

I hope your all keeping well. Its been quite awhile since I have been on here.

Colin passed away on 17th February at 9.45pm, he had everyone in to see him to say their goodbyes but waited until we were both alone together to take his final breath.

In the end it happened so fast, he wasnt feeling well on thursday or valentines day nd vomited a few times, so i decided to take him to the hospice on the saturday to be observed as they had a bed held for him. They done an xray on him on sunday and found that his right lung had collapsed and he had pneumonia on the left at this stage i was told he had days left although i knew in my heart that he didnt, turned out what i said all along was true i knew my hubby better then any doctor did, nd on monday i had to say goodbye to my husband and best friend after 18 months of marriage at the age of 28, he may not be here anymore but to me he will always be very much alive in my heart


I am so sorry for your loss, shiela. I'm sure you will hold Colin in your heart forever. I wish you had more time together. I am thankful that he had one of the best experiences that life has to offer and was able to marry his soulmate.


I'm so sorry Shiela. I think you say it perfectly that he will always be alive in your heart.

He's looking down on all of us now.


Sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my prayers.


I am so so so sorry for your loss. Am thinking about you and send you lots of love from Zimbabwe.


So sorry to read your post, sending you lots of love and hugs. Xxx


My condolences to you and your family.


I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my love of 20 years of marriage at the age of 44 on Sept 1, 2012. If you ever want to talk I am here for you. It's not a easy journey but my prayers are being sent to you and your family.



Colin's body failed him but his spirit is still alive. He was lucky to have you by his side. Please be strong Shiela, Colin wants happiness for you! Hopefully in time, the painful memories will be replaced by the happy ones...


So sorry for your loss. I know how difficult that must have been. Blessings to you and your family.


I’m so sorry but glad that you were at his bedside just the way he and God wanted. God bless you and live the life he wanted for you.


So, so sorry to read your post. Sending love and hugs to you. Xxxxx


I'm so sorry for your loss, Sheila. I too lost my husband to this beast just over a year ago. I'm glad you were by his side when he took his last breath, and he will always be in your heart. I am here if and when you'd like to talk or learn of some things that have helped me through the continued next phase of the "journey". Again, I am so incredibly sorry to learn of your loss and my thoughts are with you. XOXOXO


So sorry Sheila. He was lucky to have had you in his life.You were an incredible strength for him.God bless.


So sorry to hear of your loss. You describe his last days and the connection you two had so well. There is much love behind those words. And for that, he was very lucky.


I am so sorry for the loss of your husband! I am Evan's widow at 26 and now I am 27. He passed away in July 4, 2013. We were together so very long. MY HEART GOES OUT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! Evan passed away in my arms too with his final breath. My heart breaks for you! He will always be in your heart and be proud of yourself because you were there for him. He is watching over you now and your love for each other is eternal.


Thank you so much to everyone for the kind words for some reason I still enjoy coming on to this site although it’s always sad to see new people joining. Evan when I read ur comment I stopped in my tracks and re- read your comment u poor girl you are afew months of me so I would like to ask does it get any easier? I think I have been on auto pilot for the last three weeks but it’s coming up to his months mind and I am struggling to say the least this week my family and friends are trying to support me and keep me busy but I don’t think they fully understand just how bad it is, Colin was always laughing at me for the amount of photos I took but the past few days when I want him home or want to talk to him which I really miss I look at recent photos I took of him days before he died just to remind myself of how sick he was it usually helps but right now all I want is to feel his arms around me :frowning: